Divorce, self discovery, life after closing the door on my old belief system and discovering the flow of free thinking? What now?

Life is pretty fucking good! Ah! I had the tough times, if you read the “Loving Discovery” book, you have an idea of the trials and tribulations. It’s been up and down and up and sideways. Was terrifying as hell for a while. I felt so lost and confused. So much so that I am extremely excited to share the current journey of the most intoxicating love affair I have ever experienced. You see, I am in this fly state of existence that meets me with “hello” every single day. It greets me as my eyes open and my mind expands.

I feel incredibly fortunate to be part of an inclusive group of souls who have experienced the many facets of love, loss, and thrills. From the sheer joy of laughter to the gripping fear, hopeful anticipation, and electrifying excitement, I’ve felt it all. Passion flows effortlessly in both directions, and I consider myself lucky to have learned valuable lessons from the challenges I’ve faced. These lessons have led me to the ultimate reward: a deep understanding of true, unconditional love and forgiveness for myself and others.

Now, I allow myself to simply exist at the highest level of happiness. It’s a joy that comes from within, from embracing life as it is. My aim is to extend a guiding hand to as many of you as possible, leading you down a path you may not have known was missing from your life. It’s a gift waiting to be discovered. For those who already know this world, I invite you to join me and assist as we guide our new soul family towards this transformative journey. It’s an experience that will leave you captivated, almost like living in a dream.

Take a moment and dim the lights, have seat and take a deep breath. Six in and six out for six seconds. Recalibrate. Rotate your head counter and clockwise. Take another deep breath and… smile.

Take this moment to acknowledge that you are consciously choosing this reset and command your moment. That is where we will start. Just know that bad moments and difficult times will for sure enter your life because its part of the design so be sure to honor your moments of peace and pleasure.

You might be curious about whether love with a partner is possible after a breakup or divorce because it can feel defeating for some. The answer is yes, but it’s important to give yourself the freedom to explore and date. Avoid rushing into a serious commitment with the first person you meet or someone you anyone you have known for years. Instead, take the time to meet new people, go on dates, and truly get to know them. Discover what makes them smile, frown, laugh, and cry. Likewise, allow them to learn about who you are. Create a space where both of you can feel each other out and take things at a comfortable pace. Slow down and appreciate the journey.

When you approach dating in this way, you open your heart to the possibility of experiencing true exuberance. Embrace the person you’re with and allow for the freedom to walk away if the connection isn’t aligned. Take note of their great qualities and add them to your list. Having a list can be helpful because it reminds you to focus on what you truly desire in a partner. Remember, what you focus on becomes your future. As you construct this list, ensure that reciprocity is possible. Only add to the list when you’re genuinely focused on love and partnership. Energy plays a crucial role in this process.

Choosing a partner is one of the most significant decisions you’ll ever make, so invest time and effort into cultivating what you truly desire. Let the person you’re interested in know that you were intentional about attracting them into your life. Lastly, move forward with love and hope in your heart because you are worth it.

Stay tuned for the water, hydration loading….

Dr. Tee

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Thoughtful writing, sacred dialogue, and grounded guidance for people ready to live with clarity, connection, and truth.

From the mind & heart of Tee

This is BTWNLVRS.

A quiet space for thoughtful conversation, reflection, and remembering.

Not content created for noise or speed, but writing offered for those drawn toward clarity, honesty, and deeper connection with themselves and others.

Here, words are treated with care.

They are not rushed.

They are not optimized for outrage or performance.

They are meant to be read slowly, felt deeply, and returned to when something inside you stirs.

This space holds essays, reflections, and sacred dialogue that explore emotional truth, love, healing, spirituality, and the lived experience of being human. The writing is grounded and intimate, shaped by curiosity rather than certainty, and guided by the belief that understanding often arrives through listening, not fixing.

BTWNLVRS exists for those no longer interested in surface answers or productivity-driven healing. For those who are discerning, reflective, and willing to sit with complexity rather than rush toward conclusions. For people who know that growth is not always loud, and clarity does not always come quickly.

Some pieces will feel like conversation.

Some will feel like mirrors.

Some may ask more questions than they answer.

All are offered with care.

If you are here, you are not late, behind, or broken. You are likely listening more closely now. This space honors that moment.

Welcome.

— Tee

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